there’s sometimes in life when something just shakes your foundations…  when you hear or see something takes you by surprise and all of a sudden you find yourself standing in a place of insecurity and uncertainity.  when you’re unsure of whether the person you see in the mirror is the true you, or if the reflection which the people around you see is the true you.  when you try to make people happy and make yourself miserable.  when your just trying hard and it’s just not good enough.  when simple things become complicated.  when things you say are taken the wrong way.  when you realise people think the worst of you, even when all you want to do is make them proud.  sometimes i get confused as to what people see when they look at me.  and it makes me wonder – is the person i see myself as actually who i am?  or am i looking at myself through rose-coloured glasses and is what others say about me the truth?